How Do I Save My Marriage – How I Saved My Marriage and What You Should Do Right Now to Save Yours!
If you are asking yourself “how do I save my marriage?”, then I have two news for you – one good, one bad. Starting with the good news: You aren’t just simply letting your marriage go like most people do. There’s a divorce rate above 80 percent and it’s because people aren’t like you, and they don’t fight for their marriages. So, I congratulate you for that. But there is the bad news: You are asking the question to the wrong person: Yourself.
Why did I say that? We both know that a marriage that is circling down the drain is one of the worst feelings anyone can ever live. It’s especially the case when you want to save your marriage, but you are alone in that. Such a situation, unfortunately, makes you desperate and in your desperation; you do the wrong things in order to save your marriage. Isn’t it tempting to go and beg your spouse for forgiveness? Maybe you have done that already – but it’s actually more harmful than helpful – no one wants a begging, apologetic person as a spouse!
So this is why you have to stay away from asking “yourself” “how do I save my marriage”. The answers you yourself will come up with aren’t the correct ones – they are all guided by your emotions and desperate state of mind. Never let your emotions overwhelm your mind!
The question “how do I save my marriage” is a positive one in that you’re trying to do something; but for it to really mean something, you have to ask it to an unbiased, outside source. That was what saved my marriage (oh, did I mention that I have been in your shoes), and will save yours too.