How to Get a Boy Back After a Bad Breakup
If it seems that all your efforts are pushing you away from your ex, perhaps you are not focusing your energy in the right spots. This tips will help you to greatly improve your chances to get your ex back, just as you want.
Right now you should be in a position of seriously save the relationship and that is what brought you to read this article in the first place. Perhaps anxiety of losing your ex is making you behave the wrong way and let me tell you that will cause your ex to get away naturally. According to human nature everybody resists to this kind of pressure. Going against human nature is worthless and it will only make the situation worse.
Perhaps you are calling too much, constantly writing text messages or e-mailing him? Perhaps you are trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are using this “techniques” you need to stop right away! so, you might be thinking “what am I doing wrong?” “How can I get my ex boyfriend back?” Well, definitely there are better ways to approach, if you continue reading you will find out.
First of all, try to erase what you have learned and we will make a fresh start and a different approach.
The first thing that you need to make is break contact off only for a while, get involved in your life again. You will see that this period is very critical, first of all because you will feel a need of contacting him and second you will show him that you are not so needy. What to do during this time period? well, you can focus on your personal growth rather than focusing on a relationship. It is not going to be easy but this will get you away from your bad habits.
During this period of time, your ex is going to shift on his feelings towards you, since you will not be after him anymore. And here is were you start to turn on the key of mystery. He will not be sure of what you are doing or feeling. When mystery starts to appear, then he will start to miss you for the simple reason that he will not know anything about you. But wait, this is only the first step!
Remember what I told you about human nature? well we will work with it and not against it. Now, are thinking of getting him back you might have a clear picture of what not to do and what to do. How to avoid this kind of mistakes is crucial to go back to the relationship. This very first strategy will give you the power to restore some f the balance lost and will allow your ex to remember why he loved you.
Start to feel some signs and you can make yourself appear mysterious. You must play a bit hard and let him make the first move, he will start coming back to check out the mystery woman. Then you can stop asking the question “how to get my ex back?”